Demi Lovato comes out as pansexual: 'I'm so fluid now'

Demi Lovato comes out as pansexual: ‘I’m so fluid now’

Last updated: March 30, 2021 7:08 AM

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Demi Lovato has long been candid about her sexuality, but she’s publicly sharing the label she identifies with. On the Joe Rogan Experience podcast, she said she’s pansexual, meaning she’s attracted to all genders, and she’s proud to be part of the “alphabet mafia,” referring to the LGBTQIA+ community.

While talking about whether she wants to have children, Lovato said, “I used to. I think if anything I want to adopt. I was engaged to a man last year,” she continued, referring to ex-fiancé Max Ehrich. “I totally thought I’d be married, maybe pregnant by now. And that’s not the case.”

Demi Lovato 2017 MTV Video Music Awards - Red Carpet — Demi Lovato attends the 2017 MTV Video Music Awards at The Forum on August 27, 2017 in Inglewood, California. (Photo by Getty Images)

She continued, “I also don’t know if I’m going to end up with a guy, so I can’t really see myself maybe getting pregnant. I’m so fluid now — and a part of the reason why I am so fluid is because I was super closeted off.”

Rogan clarified that she means “sexually fluid” and that she’s interested in both women and men. Lovato replied, “Yeah — anything really.”

He asked if the term is “pansexual” and Lovato replied, “Yeah, pansexual.”

Demi Lovato DEMI x JBL Tell Me You Love Me Pop Up Event — Demi Lovato on September 28, 2017 in New York City. (Photo by Getty Images)

Lovato went on to say she heard someone call the LGBTQIA+ community the “alphabet mafia” — and loved the term.

“That’s it! That’s what I’m going with. I’m part of the alphabet mafia and proud,” she said.

Later, Rogan asked when Lovato realized she was interested in women as well as men, she said it was watching 1999’s Cruel Intentions and seeing Sarah Michelle Gellar and Selma Blair.

Demi Lovato Samsung Launch Party — Demi Lovato on August 18, 2015 in West Hollywood, California. (Photo by Getty Images)

“I was like, ‘Oh, I like that,'” she recalled. “But I felt a lot of shame because growing up in Texas as a Christian that’s very frowned upon. Any attraction I had to a female at a young age, I shut it down before I even let myself process what I was feeling.”

Lovato has been out as sexually fluid since 2017. That year, she said in her YouTube documentary, Simply Complicated, that she was open to dating men and women, explaining, “I am open to human connection. So whether that’s through a male or a female, it doesn’t matter to me.”

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